Showing posts with label Teenage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Teenage. Show all posts

Sunday, November 16, 2008

They do Hug


Two lovers which we call has a two different world which they try to be the same. How they meet each other and how does it works?
From the very beginning they know each other that there's no possibility to be together. Aside from that both of their parents against each other the girl is already engaged with the other guy.
As the days pass by they decide to be just a friends. They just friends for almost, their parents did not put any wrong with them together. They became friends together until they develop each other. Both of their parents nothing knows that they are on together. They kept it secret to everybody. Until the most awaited time of the engaged guy of the girl near to come. Both of them feel nervous. The girl is waited to turn 18 and they get married. The girl said that her feeling had changed and she really feel that she did not love the guy. She want to escape with those wrong decision but she tied with her parents. She really felt guilt of the things came along in her mind.
Until one day, the two lovers both gone from their place. They go in a far place which they think they can hide.

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

She give ne one hug



I my self know better who I am and what I am. I will not show my feelings to other, especially to my parents. I'm not so close to them It's maybe because I'm not a showy person. I guess I haven't properly nurture by my parents or else it's just nature to me. I blame no one else because I know that I have my mistakes to. Sometimes I really want to be alone I hate people go along with me.
I always irritate with someone without any valid reason. I easily hate thing happen. I feel to live in this world is not full of happiness. I'm always not in a right mood. I don't really want to laugh I hates their jokes. I'm not so sensitive with the other's feeling. I didn't care anyone else. I feel obviously jealous even with my brother and sister. I want my parents give to me their attention. The greediness and selfishness exist in my way. Even my friends they feel they are neglected . They really feel that I had changed . When I do bad and any wrong to someone I also feel guilty. I always feel bored.
On those times I think I'm not important in this world. I ask my self, what's the purpose of life in the world? That question reach up in my mind.
One day my mother feel me, she came along. I did not greet her, I feel nothing,the same as I saw something faraway from the distance.
She said to me, "what happen with you my son?" I replied "nothing". I don't know what she think of and go along with her mind.
I know you have a problem, my mother told me. She sat near to me and said how much she love my brother and sister and mostly to me. I guess those words new and stranger to me, and I feel something better. My mother gave her one hug and I feel more than better. I feel refreshed.
With the end of those times I feel better and I renew my self, I feel vigorous of some activities, Interested with all things new for me. Now I do more socializing with my friends and others. For me, attention of a parents are very important to change the values and lives of their child.

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

Teenage common problems


Most of our teenage youth today suffer with teenage common problem. This stage also we called as crucial stage because of our critical and analytical function motivated. I my self prove it. We don't already know what the best way fighting for it. Although common to other, but there a reason why it became. Other neglected and didn't care about it. Other also fraught and facing this truth. Perhaps, parents has a big part to help their child to develop and conquer all of this. Parents can guide their child. Lacking of awareness. One of the teenagers common problem today. Teen can't aware of everything because of the all the thing around us. Low self esteem. Most of the adolescents worries their appearance. Changing clothes, hair, body shape. They spend much time looking their self in the mirror. Dealing with emotions. Different emotions that the teen expresses - fear, fear and love. Some teenagers especially girls are so much emotional and boys less develop their range emotional expression. Embarrassment, irritation and disappointment are difficult emotions to react to and anger is the way some teenagers express themselves.
Handling failure. All human are not perfect,all we know the fact that all of us take failures. Tees in common cannot handle wisely with their failure. They became more depress and sometimes thinking suicide. Most of the teenager fail with their exams, activities, sports and relationship.Most important that the child open to their parents.
Untidiness.
Most common battlegrounds between parents and teenagers. Most teens feel comfortable all the time even though they do something wrong. They annoy their parents they don't care sometimes of doing clean.